NEW CLINICAL SUPERVISION GROUP!

I’m so excited to announce:

We’ll be discussing cases, doing some mock case formulations and diagnostic exercises, working on treatment planning, and sharing resources amongst new or incumbent master’s-level counseling graduates!

Sessions will be monthly, via Zoom (you’re also welcome to come to my office if you’re local and it’s convenient for you). No commitment required, however prospective members must apply by emailing me directly.

I’m hoping to keep group numbers around 6-8, so I’m expecting spots to fill up quickly! Reserve your spot today!

NEW CLINICAL SUPERVISION GROUP!

I’m so excited to announce:

We’ll be discussing cases, doing some mock case formulations and diagnostic exercises, working on treatment planning, and sharing resources amongst new or incumbent master’s-level counseling graduates!

Sessions will be monthly, via Zoom (you’re also welcome to come to my office if you’re local and it’s convenient for you). No commitment required, however prospective members must apply by emailing me directly.

I’m hoping to keep group numbers around 6-8, so I’m expecting spots to fill up quickly! Reserve your spot today!

NEW CLINICAL SUPERVISION GROUP!

I’m so excited to announce:

We’ll be discussing cases, doing some mock case formulations and diagnostic exercises, working on treatment planning, and sharing resources amongst new or incumbent master’s-level counseling graduates!

Sessions will be monthly, via Zoom (you’re also welcome to come to my office if you’re local and it’s convenient for you). No commitment required, however prospective members must apply by emailing me directly.

I’m hoping to keep group numbers around 6-8, so I’m expecting spots to fill up quickly! Reserve your spot today!

NEW CLINICAL SUPERVISION GROUP!

I’m so excited to announce:

We’ll be discussing cases, doing some mock case formulations and diagnostic exercises, working on treatment planning, and sharing resources amongst new or incumbent master’s-level counseling graduates!

Sessions will be monthly, via Zoom (you’re also welcome to come to my office if you’re local and it’s convenient for you). No commitment required, however prospective members must apply by emailing me directly.

I’m hoping to keep group numbers around 6-8, so I’m expecting spots to fill up quickly! Reserve your spot today!

Copy of NEW CLINICAL SUPERVISION GROUP!

I’m so excited to announce:

We’ll be discussing cases, doing some mock case formulations and diagnostic exercises, working on treatment planning, and sharing resources amongst new or incumbent master’s-level counseling graduates!

Sessions will be monthly, via Zoom (you’re also welcome to come to my office if you’re local and it’s convenient for you). No commitment required, however prospective members must apply by emailing me directly.

I’m hoping to keep group numbers around 6-8, so I’m expecting spots to fill up quickly! Reserve your spot today!

NEW CLINICAL SUPERVISION GROUP!

I’m so excited to announce:

We’ll be discussing cases, doing some mock case formulations and diagnostic exercises, working on treatment planning, and sharing resources amongst new or incumbent master’s-level counseling graduates!

Sessions will be monthly, via Zoom (you’re also welcome to come to my office if you’re local and it’s convenient for you). No commitment required, however prospective members must apply by emailing me directly.

I’m hoping to keep group numbers around 6-8, so I’m expecting spots to fill up quickly! Reserve your spot today!

Copy of NEW CLINICAL SUPERVISION GROUP!

I’m so excited to announce:

We’ll be discussing cases, doing some mock case formulations and diagnostic exercises, working on treatment planning, and sharing resources amongst new or incumbent master’s-level counseling graduates!

Sessions will be monthly, via Zoom (you’re also welcome to come to my office if you’re local and it’s convenient for you). No commitment required, however prospective members must apply by emailing me directly.

I’m hoping to keep group numbers around 6-8, so I’m expecting spots to fill up quickly! Reserve your spot today!

What Do I Actually Need? Therapy vs. Coaching

There may be some confusion about how to get your needs met. You may be aware that you want help, but there is so much conflicting information available it can be hard to figure out where to turn. The over-simplified answer is: if you want to heal the past, get some therapy (which will identify the role your past is playing in the present, and is one way to heal and make changes). Coaching is a way to start making declarations and holding yourself accountable for a new way of showing up to the world- with support from someone who has expertise in a specific area.

To explain further, I am someone who does both. Often, my therapy clients have little insight into the patterns that are playing out in their daily lives. They just know their lives are beginning to feel increasingly out of their control, and that their symptoms are interfering with important areas of functioning. We have to spend a long time examining each small detail related to an issue, as it’s somewhat like a “breadcrumb” trail leading to the root of the problem. We then create therapy goals that are long-term, as well as smaller objectives to implement in effort to reach those goals. So, if I have a client whose main therapy goal is to stop experiencing trauma flashbacks, our objectives may look like: Identify and reprocess trauma memories using EMDR; build a strong coping skills repertoire; and identify a self-care regimen to decrease the likelihood of dissociation. Once we have achieved those goals, we either reassess and create new goals, or agree that the therapeutic relationship is complete and terminate accordingly. This is usually covered by health/behavioral health insurance plans.

Coaching is different. Life/relationship/business coaching is not a place to pick apart and try to heal old trauma. For starters, it’s more loose and free, so treatment plans and formal documentation are not necessary. As a result, insurance plans do not cover life/relationship/business coaching, but they may be tax deductible depending on many factors. Additionally, more of the “work” is done by the client. The life coach asks the client what they would like to spend their time focusing on, and asks a series of thought-provoking questions to help the client arrive at answers that lie within them. They help the client get out of their own heads if they can’t “see the forest for the trees.” Their questions are meant to inspire new thought and help the client incorporate new ways of thinking and approaching the world, their business, spirituality, and/or relationships.

Therapy is more focused on healing past issues, whereas coaching is more focused on supporting the client while they are taking more of the lead. Therefore, each session may have a very different focus in coaching, whereas in therapy/counseling sessions are directed by treatment plans. Coaching can also be used for accountability, but therapy/counseling has an ethical code when using therapy for this purpose while diagnosing and having active treatment plans- which are required for billing insurance.

I have two businesses where I do both. In my private practice, Mental Health Counseling & Consultation Services, LLC, I have a team of therapists who focus on clinical issues- therapy that requires diagnosis, treatment plans (very formal), insurance, therapy notes, and re-evaluation/updating of treatment plans every 90 days. Most of us focus on trauma of some sort and specialize in various types of treatment (such as EMDR). 

The life coaching business I own is called “The Nest Center for Coaching.” In my coaching business, I love to work with women who have processed their old trauma and given up their identity as someone who is ill or a victim, and need support in approaching the world as someone who is well or empowered. I also love to work with women who may have, as a result of early trauma, approached the world from a masculine perspective as a way of subconsciously identifying with those whom they view as more powerful than they are. They refuse to ever be victims again, so they are powerhouses at work but don’t understand why they don’t have the relationships/personal lives they feel they deserve.

I also love to support other clinicians as they move on from their graduate programs, make early moves in their careers, obtain their clinical licenses, and move toward private practice. There, we focus on niching and marketing as well as creating small, realistic plans the client feels are applicable to their daily lives. 

There are key differences between each of these fields, and it may seem that there is overlap between them (because there is). Point being, there are many different ways to receive the help you know you need, but first you may want to spend a little time being absolutely clear with yourself on what you need and the kind of help that would be most beneficial to you. Otherwise, there may be some confusion and a feeling of disappointment or hopelessness resulting from a mistaken belief that no one can help you!

If it sounds like my counseling practice may be able to help you, we do have immediate openings and lots of exciting events and groups happening throughout the year. Check out our website at www.mhccholistichealth.orgor email me directly at Rebecca@mhccholistichealth.hush.com. If my coaching services sound like they’re more your speed, visit my other website at www.nestcoaching.orgor email me directly at rebecca@nestcoaching.org

Rebecca L. Toner, MA, LPC

Freer of Souls. Connector to Purpose. Healer of Lives.

Rebecca Toner, MA, LPC is a group private practice owner, EMDR therapist and consultant-in-training, and a life coach operating out of Plainville, CT. She specializes in treating clients with chronic attachment trauma and dissociation, and has passion in working with coaching clients who are learning how to reclaim their power after processing trauma.

Rebecca Toner, MA, LPC is a group private practice owner, EMDR therapist and consultant-in-training, and a life coach operating out of Plainville, CT. She specializes in treating clients with chronic attachment trauma and dissociation, and has passion in working with coaching clients who are learning how to reclaim their power after processing trauma.